Sure...it's called dynamic range. Dolby Digital and DTS content can have a full range of low and high volumes. If you want everything the same level, you probably like listening to a car radio (FM is very compressed).
You didn't specify what your setup was, but I'm assuming you're just using the TV speakers. If not, you may not have your speaker setup calibrated properly. All five (or six) speakers should be set to the same level, according to Dolby specifications. Properly calibrated, dialogue should be very clear in the center speaker. If you still want to compress the dynamic levels, your DVD player and/or TV and/or receiver may have something such as a "night theater" mode.
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HR10-250, Samsung SIR-S4120R, SIR-S4080R, 2 Philips DSR704s (one connected to a Slingbox A/V). One box used the "Zipper"; rest used PTVnet to enable networking features.


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